It is obviously a bit abnormal that one spouse's mobile phone is not allowed to be touched by the other. However, this problem cannot be generalized, and it may only be an occasional one.
There needs to be some personal space for each other, but it needs to be based on trust.
Even the most loving couples cannot stick together 24 hours a day, and they need to leave some space for each other. However, this so-called space is definitely not for you to do things that betray your marriage, but for you to have more time to think about your own things or do things you like. For now, everyone keeps their mobile phones in their hands. When you giggle at your phone, your partner will definitely ask you why you are smiling. If you subconsciously avoid this topic or let your partner look at your phone at this time, either you are doing something sorry for him, or you are creating a surprise for him.
The secret that can be hidden in the mobile phone is no longer a secret.
Although there are more and more ways to lock the screen now, there are also more and more ways to open the screen. Even when you're sleeping, you can unlock your phone with your fingerprint or face recognition. Instead of letting your partner look at your phone in a dodgy way, and not showing him openly, you have to trust that he will always have a way to open your phone.
It is really important for two people to trust each other together. Occasionally looking at each other's mobile phone can be regarded as a verification of trust. But it is a disrespectful and distrustful behavior for him to decide not to frequently flip through the other party's mobile phone. If a guy really wants to leave you or cheat on you, it has nothing to do with asking you to look at his phone or not. No matter what kind of mentality the other party doesn't let you look at your phone, if you do this often, the two of you need to communicate well. Under normal circumstances, husband and wife should also give each other a small privacy space. Everyone should have their own independent space.
1. I don't want the other party to see the bill. Some big spending is hidden from the other party, and I don't want the other party to know.
2. If you have extramarital affairs, you are afraid that the other party will see the communication records, such as call records, chat records, etc.
3. Husband and wife disrespect and trust each other.
Loving couples watch each other casually on their mobile phones. Those who say they have privacy are just making excuses for themselves. The husband and wife let each other see everything together. Is it privacy to look at the mobile phone, and there is no privacy between the mobile phone between the husband and wife. Both husband and wife have "secrets", even husband and wife. Husbands and wives should also abide by the rules. Don't force them to see things that the other person doesn't want to let them know. This will respect both the other person and themselves. Otherwise, there will be differences, and even affect the relationship between husband and wife, resulting in family discord. You respect me, I can respect you, this is a two-way, not a single, couples are the same. I need to let you know, and I will tell you when the time comes. In short, husband and wife should respect each other, understand each other, be tolerant and generous, and eliminate mutual suspicion.
Whether or not to look at the other party's mobile phone has become one of the topics of contention in many emotional relationships. Some people think that it is personal privacy, and some people think that complete confession is the expression of unreserved love for each other. In fact, inadvertently, in the relationship between the sexes The psychology of control and possession runs through the whole process. Love is exclusive. Everyone wants the other person to be completely his own. Whether or not to look at the mobile phone is not an important issue, but whether the other person deliberately minds and avoids letting him check his mobile phone is the key core. Even if there are no ulterior secrets, avoidance behavior will make people instinctively generate countless guesses and reasoning. After all, under the changing times, the probability of desertion and the probability of being tempted are increasing, and there are countless factual cases around. The beating reminded myself that doubt is not so much a distrust of a partner, but a questioning of the scruples of human nature.
Many people regard the sayings as "love is to give him (her) freedom" and "what belongs to you will not run away, and what runs away is not yours" as the truth of love. A false smile with a tooth that does not hurt at the commanding heights, because no one can absolutely create trust. Trust comes from the affirmation of countless behaviors in the process of communication, that is to say, increase trust based on past inertial behavior to avoid doubt, instead of a blind I believe in you, in the case of ignorance, there will be no doubtful thoughts. Protecting one's partner is a human instinct, how can it be so great that blind trust in one's life does not require any verification and reason.
In the process of fighting wits and courage between the two sexes in nature, both men and women began to evolve and invent various methods and psychological tactics to test each other's loyalty to themselves. This is not influenced by the acquired environment, but the genes in the bones. An innate nature. With the development of the times, the mobile phone represents too much of another person's life. Being transparent to one's partner is an obvious proof of the openness of the heart. Some people will definitely say that if you have the heart, you will go home and delete it naturally. Reluctant to do dramas and avoid touching mobile phones to prevent crises, it will be even more doomed to the two people's unharmonious relationship.
Although it is said that men and women will have similar tensions when facing emotional investment, it is undeniable that women will be more sensitive to the privacy review process, in order to judge the proof of the other party's loyalty to themselves, but men are not good at expressing themselves, but also because of their lack of expression. When stress and fatigue are too lazy to communicate, there will be resentment and misunderstandings.